
We come into our work lives with notions about leadership. We experience being led all our lives – by parents, teachers, coaches, etc. – and from these experiences we draw conclusions about what a leader does or does not do. Of course, not all of our experiences as followers are positive, so, in some cases, our notions may be formed based on those more negative experiences, Regardless of how we get them, we have ideas about what a leader should look like. Often our image of a good leader is of someone who commands a room, speaks authoritatively and is comfortable delivering speeches in front of groups small and large. Some leaders are like that. There are plenty of great leaders, however, who are not that “in-the-front-of-the-room, larger-than-life” persona. There are effective leaders who are unobtrusive, speak thoughtfully and are more comfortable in small groups than large ones. I had a colleague who was very well respected and quite effective in her role at a Director level. She was a reserved, thoughtful person who hired great people and was not threatened by them. She listened intently to everyone and was a bit cautious in her approach but flexible. Nearly everyone
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